Siza kuthetha ngesihloko esithile esikhethekileyo, kodwa esona sibaluleke kakhulu xa kufikwa ekufuneni ukuba ube neparadesi encinci nje ukuba uphume endlwini: Inkqubo yemibala egadini. Kwaye kukuba, xa sityelele igadi yezityalo, sonke siyamangaliswa kukubona imibala eyahlukeneyo esiyibonisayo, kwaye ngaphezulu kwako konke, indlela ezabiwa ngayo izityalo, kuba kuphela ezo zisikhokelela kwiindawo ezithile (indawo yokuphumla, umthombo, phuma, phakathi kwabanye).
Kodwa singabadibanisa njani ukufikelela kulungelelwaniso, olo manyano?
Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yile ukuqonda. Zombini ezi zinto zigqithileyo (kakhulu / kumbala omncinci) ziya konakalisa ubuhle begadi yakho, ke ngoko kubalulekile ukuba, ngaphambi kokuba siqale ukutyala, senze uyilo olwahlukileyo: endaweni yokubeka amagama ezityalo, wahlule umhlaba wakho ube yimimandla imibala. Ungadibanisa ezimbini okanye nangaphezulu kwindawo enye ukuze ubone ukuba ijongeka kanjani.
Ndiyayincoma lonto khetha ezo zihamba nomlinganiswa wakho, ukuba bakumele ngandlela thile. Umzekelo: ukuba ungumntu ozolileyo, ke imibala ethambileyo efana nepinki, mhlophe, mauve… yeyakho; Kwelinye icala, ukuba unovalo kakhulu kwaye / okanye awuzinzanga, unokukhetha imibala emi kakhulu, enjengombala omthubi okanye obomvu.
Kwaye ... sibeka ntoni ngasemva? Ukuze ungaphazami, Kukhethwa ukubeka umbala ongabonakali kakhulu, ukuze izityalo ezingaphambili zikhanye ngakumbi. Kwaye ndiza kukuxelela ngakumbi: dlala noluhlu lwemibala. Yiya kufudumeza (oko kukuthi, bomvu, tyheli okanye orenji) ngaphambili, kwaye njengoko uhamba, beka ezo zipholileyo (luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, mfusa okanye luhlaza).
Ukuba uthanda umphumo wokugqibela, ngoko Kufuneka ukhethe kuphela izityalo oyithanda kakhulu, kwaye uyityale 🙂.
Yonwabela igadi yakho.